Oahu Edition

Hawaii is a magical place. Not only does the year-round beautiful weather, rich culture, pristine beaches, and diverse scenery make it one of the top tourist destinations in the world, but also one of the number one wedding destinations. The burning question every couple planning their dream destination wedding wants to know is, what is the average cost of a wedding in Hawaii? This is a loaded question! While we can’t provide you with exact numbers as no two weddings are the same, we can break down the average costs for you to demystify the financials.

The cost of a wedding in Hawaii falls on a number of factors. The three main ones are:

  1. The Island
  2. The Type of Venue (hotel vs. estate)
  3. Guest Count

The next biggest factor to consider is what type of wedding you are planning – [DIY/Budget], [Average/Stress-free with quality vendors], [Pinterest- worthy/Extravagant dream wedding], etc…for the sake of this blog let’s talk, Average!

Today, we are going to cover the cost of getting married on Oahu

The average cost of a wedding for around 100 guests on Oahu is between $50,000- $80,000 – this does not include airfare, experiences, accommodations or wedding attire. There are so many moving parts to a wedding, and a variety of vendors are required to make it happen. Here is a simple overview and range of average costs for each vendor category:

  • Venue: $3,000 – $10,000
    • Site fees only
  • Coordinator/Planner: $3,000-$10,000
    • Average “Day of” or “Month of” Coordination: $3,000
    • Average Partial Planning: $6,500
    • Average Full Planning: $9,000
  • Rentals: $10,000-$18,000
    • Basic Tentless, Standard Chairs + Tables (with polyester linens) will aim you on the lower side – ANY elevation of specialty rentals (think nicer chairs, lounges, wooden tables, specialty linen) will put you closer to the mid/higher figure.
  • Flowers: $5,000-$8,000
    • Tropical flowers (being natural to the Hawaii environment) will aim to be at the lower price listed. However, your flowers-to-greenery ratio will determine this! We’re talking average-sized VIP/Entourages (bouquets, lei, boutonniere), modest ceremony embellishments, and standard table centerpieces, etc.
  • DJ & MC: $2,500-$3,500
    • Note that if your ceremony is in a different area than your reception, they normally will have a separate system (and charge) for this.
    • MC services are normally included with a full-service DJ, but always keep an eye out for this on your contract!
  • Live Musician: $1,000
    • Couples may consider a live music element for ceremony (for example), consider that the type of instrument (guitar, ukulele, string quartet), hourly rate of service, plus set up/breakdown and sound system will range in costs.
  • Live Band Entertainment: $5,000+
    • Any band performance will depend on the number of artists, the number of hours performing, and the equipment required.
  • Hair & Makeup: $500
    • Bridal Services Only can be estimated at an average of $300, with travel/set up fees (thus the $500 estimate)
    • Additional Attendants average $250
  • Officiant: $200-$700
  • Photography: $3,000-$8,000
    • This estimate is based on an average of 6-8 hours of service
  • Videography: $4,000-$10,000
    • This estimate is based on an average of 6-8 hours of service
  • Catering: $13,000
    • The average charge we estimate this off is Buffet Service for $75/head + staffing + taxes/fees
    • Plated or Family Style meal service will incur higher staffing charges for more seamless services
  • Dessert: $500-$1500
    • Whether it’s a simple wedding cake + delivery or a dessert bar, this cost may vary!
  • Transportation: $3,000
    • This is an average estimate if you provide one-way transport for 100 guests to and from your wedding location.
  • Miscellaneous: $3,000 (photo booth, lawn games, extras)

**You will notice that categories such as DJ & MC, Entertainment, Officiant, Photographer & Videographer as well as Photo Booth do not typically vary too much based on guest count or the type of venue.**

HELP!! My budget is under the average; does this mean I can’t celebrate in Hawaii?!

These are purely estimates for a balanced event based on only a guest count and industry averages. It does not imply a large elevation of style, nor keeping incredibly tight on budget, but rolls down the middle of the average pricing and being particular in quality vendor selections. It’s not implied that this cost can’t be adjusted, there are certainly more affordable options and considerations of what vendors will be applicable to your celebration! But this would mean that you are being incredibly particular about vendor choices and cutting excess costs wherever you can. It’s a balance of needs vs. wants, but a point to note based on your research as you WILL come across these prices and have to hunt a little deeper. Keep in mind: Your guest count is the biggest factor in how your budget is allocated. More people, higher prices! Less people, lower prices. You might want to think twice about inviting your family’s distant relative you barely know, afterall.

Real 2023 Pricing Breakdown for an Average ~75 Guest Estate Wedding –

The couple used average industry vendors and had a modest and balanced vision for their wedding celebration.

  • Venue: $8,000 (Outdoor estate wedding)
  • Day of Coordinator: $3,500
  • Bar: $3,000 (elevated service – not including alcohol)
  • Catering: $9,000 (Average $60/pp + staffing + rentals + service fees)
  • Cake + Dessert Bar: $1,500
  • DJ & MC: $3,500
  • Entertainment: $1,200 for a string quartet at ceremony
  • Florist: $5,500
  • Hair & Makeup: Average $300 for Brides service, $250 for Attendants (estimate 4)
  • Officiant: $350
  • Photographer: $4,500 (all day)
  • Photo booth: $1,000
  • Rentals (Tented Reception, Specialty Chairs, Fun Lounge!): $15,000
  • Transportation: $2,000 (Waikiki to West Oahu)
  • Videography: $5,500 (all day)

= Estimated Total: $65,000

Real 2023 Pricing Breakdown for ~50 Guest DIY/Budget Estate Wedding –

The couple used slightly pared-back services and/or under-average (but quality) vendors.

  • Venue: $5,000 for estate property (standard tables + chairs included!)
  • Day of Coordinator: $3,500
  • Bar: $1,000 (basic service w/ rentals – not including alcohol)
  • Catering: $7,500 (buffet + staffing + service fees)
  • Cake: $300 (Simple cake, a friend will pickup on their way to the ceremony)
  • Sound System: $1,000 – No DJ! A friend managed a Spotify playlist for the reception, the ceremony had a Bluetooth speaker from a friend for music down the aisle
  • MC: A friend made announcements!
  • Entertainment: $350/hr for a guitarist at ceremony
  • Florist: $3,500 (Simple/Tropical Centerpieces w/ in-season blooms + florists styling freedom)
  • Hair & Makeup: $250 for Brides service, $200 for Attendants (estimate 4)
  • Officiant: $350
  • Photographer: $3,000 (6 hours)
  • Photo Booth: None!
  • Rentals (General – Tentless, using venue rentals!): $8,500
  • Transportation: None! Guests drove themselves
  • Videography: $3,000 (4 hours)

= Estimated Total: $37,000

What about Hotel Weddings?!

The main difference in celebrating at a Hotel or Banquet-Supported-Establishment (i.e. Golf Course, Country Club, etc.) is that they often pose their costs under a Site Fee and Food & Beverage Minimums. This will assume the following categories will be under the “umbrella” of the establishment: Bar, Catering, Cake/Desserts + Standard Banquet Rentals.

A Hotel or Banquet-Supported-Establishment requires that Food & Beverages are run through their main catering team on-site! “Food & Beverage Costs” will normally have minimums (i.e. $20,000++ F&B Minimum), meaning that your event is required to hit a $20,000 food/beverage cost, plus taxes, plus fees (e.g. the ++ at the end of the total). Hawaii Tax is 4.7%, and average fees are 15-20%, so if you had a $20,000++ F&B minimum, you would be spending about $25,000.

For bar services, a flat-rate cost will be charged to have the bar open, and from there, you as the couple can determine if you will host the entire bar service for your guests, partially host (to a certain $ amount), or provide the option for guests to purchase their own drinks (cash bar).

Note that in establishments such as this, standard event rentals (tables, linens, chairs, dinnerware, glassware) are included in the costs.

Guest Counts

When it comes to a smaller guest count (50 people and under) vs. a larger guest count (over 100 people) it doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s “half the cost” or “double the cost”. For example, for a group of 150 guests, costs will be higher by about 30-40% to account for vendors with guest-count ties (rentals, catering, florals, etc.) whereas a smaller group of 35 will often be only 20-30% cheaper. Is this specific math 100% accurate? NO. But in our experience, it’s basic averages you can rely on.

Taxes and Tips

It is easy to overlook what may seem like minor additions when you are budgeting for your big day but we want to make note that these scenarios and estimates do NOT include taxes or tips for your vendors. Keep in mind that Hawaii has a high sales tax of around 4.7% that you should account for when planning. You also don’t want to forget about gratuity for your amazing vendors. Check out our how to tip your vendors guide here!

Accommodation, Airfare and Activities

Hawaii is an island in the middle of the Pacific, which means travel costs can add up. Between airfare, hotels, transportation and enjoying all the fun activities the island has to offer you will want to consider what this side budget looks like.

Lastly, Let’s talk about some cost-saving tips and a few areas you can save! Here are a few ideas:

  • Choose a Weekday Wedding: Monday through Thursday celebrations are often priced more affordably amongst venues and vendors alike vs. Weekend Weddings (Friday-Sunday). If you’re celebrating a destination wedding, this should be of top priority since the entire trip is a vacation! If you’re a Hawaii local, it can be a tactful way to reduce your guest count naturally without having to skimp on the invitations.
  • Book Your Vendors EARLY: Booking vendors early allows full range of choice for your top vendors! The most affordable vendors go first, so considering that you’re trying to save on costs, don’t wait until the last minute and have to compromise on paying a higher price, or settling for lower quality.
  • Bundle Your Vendors! Whether it’s Photo/Video services packaged or DJ/MC/Photo Booth together, sticking with the same company will save on costs!
  • Re-Consider Your Guest List!!!! We get it, the family you must invite, the friends that would want to come; guest list creation may be one of the toughest challenges of planning. Consider that most people just want to be thought of or included in some way, but that doesn’t always mean extending them (and their +1 or +4) an invitation and covering $200+ per head (yes that’s the average). Whether that’s providing them a Live-Stream link to your wedding ceremony so they can celebrate virtually, sending them a “We’re Engaged” but we’re celebrating intimately and we appreciate the love from afar, or just not feeling the need to justify a non-invite is okay too.
  • Finally, here are some feasible options for saving on a few vendor categories:
    • DJ & MC: Use a sound system and have a friend manage your playlist and act as MC for the day
    • Officiant: Use a friend
    • Hair & Makeup: Do it yourself! Youtube tutorials!!
    • Flowers & Decor: Use candles and other DIY elements to reduce the costs of florals
    • Cake & Desserts: Do something different! When a “wedding” is associated with any order, it tends to be more expensive. What about a donut wall ($1 a donut) or something else sweet!?
    • Bar: Save some serious money here by offering beer/seltzers/wine only and watch your savings increase without having full bar + mixer offerings.

There you have it, an idea of what it will cost to get married on Oahu. Please reach out to our team to book a consultation for a more accurate quote based on your specific wedding details.

Photo Credit: Red Ring Studio

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