This novel Coronavirus pandemic has had everybody hanging on the edge of their seats. People have lost jobs, homes, family members, and been robbed of major life events such as their weddings it has been nothing short of devastating. The entire wedding industry in Hawaii has come to a screeching halt. As the world is left on “pause” and “reset” buttons, wedding vendors, venues, caterers and are still wondering how weddings will be held in the future time. Here is how we are advising couples to plan, adjust, and manage the current situation.

Most brides dream of their special day from the time they are young. They shouldn’t have to shatter these dreams just because of the current pandemic.  Instead of canceling your entire event, let’s talk about just rescheduling it for a later date. Most couples are seeing this as a safe solution in hopes that the severity of the pandemic subsides. Adjust your plans rather than change them completely.  By choosing to wait a year or so then you don’t have to give up on these dreams!

Most couples have opted to postpone their wedding for a “better tomorrow”. For some, that is not an option. One way to organize your wedding during the COVID-19 pandemic is by downsizing. As big receptions are out of the question, try to find an outdoor venue or backyard space, and only invite your close friends and family.  The people’s safety is in the first place, so your distant relative will understand. Let your cousin be the DJ or only hire necessary vendors – to reduce new contacts.

It’s impossible to place yourself into the couple’s and vendor’s shoes as they both feel disappointed by the pandemic in very different ways. On one hand, the newlyweds are in a tricky position as they don’t know whether to postpone, cancel or book and on the other hand, vendors don’t know whether to give back the deposit or lose their business. The best idea is to come up with a suitable and peaceful solution that will fit both parties. Communication and understanding will be key in making this happen and keeping a good relationship.

Brides often get overwhelmed with wedding planning, and if things don’t go according to plan it can be extremely stressful. The current pandemic has given brides, grooms, and wedding planners a run for their money. One way to adjust and manage the current pandemic is acceptance. Please have in mind that time heals everything. Fortunately, the pandemic will not last forever, and all things can be sorted out with patience and diligence.

Couples who have booked in advance are likely feeling overwhelmed with the decision of what to do about their pending wedding date. Once the decision has been made and the stress has been lifted the bride and groom can continue with the fun part of getting prepped for the wedding… making plans and shopping. The safest and most effective way to shop and plan with the current status of the world is online. Luckily the world is adjusting and most things have shifted to the online world.  Try visiting this website for example to shop for small wedding details or reaching out to local vendors to set up virtual tours or consultations.

To sum up, Love is never canceled. Plan, adjust, and manage your wedding details and don’t allow the misfortune of this pandemic to affect your love.  Remember, if you just can’t (or don’t want to) wait all it takes is each other and an officiant to make seal the deal.